Mistakes Were Made (but Not By Me)

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In Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me) Third Edition, Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson explore how the brain is wired for self-justification, and how it can often lead us to make mistakes, cling to outdated attitudes and mistreat other people. Drawing on their extensive research, the authors provide strategies for overcoming self-justification and learning to accept responsibility for our own actions, offering insight into how we can live with dissonance, learn from it and eventually forgive ourselves. This book has been praised for its sharp insight and keen observation, making it a must-read for anyone looking to gain a better understanding of self-justification.

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